This may be seen through direct verbal communication or the verbal cues such as withdrawal from the family members and breaking any ties with the accused member.I then asked her how she would describe her feelings towards and she acknowledged that she felt anger towards him. She said, “Why would he do that to us? We had not offended him at all, and if we did why would he not tell us? Those are the few questions I also ask myself every day”. She asserted that she felt resentment towards him. “He has put us through a lot of grief,” she said. Anger and resentment are some of the feelings that family members and friends feel towards the deceased (van der Wal, 2008). They feel that he or she put them through a lot of unanticipated grief that cost them a lot.I asked her whether she had any unresolved issue with her brother before his death and if so, what are her feelings on the same. She first acknowledged that she had an argument with her brother and had not reconciled. She said, “I was distressed by this issue and it still does up to now”. Impact of Suicide and Mental Illness on Families.
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i. What was your first reaction when you learnt of his death?
ii. When you got home, other than the police being around, would you tell by the look of your parents that something was terribly wrong?
iii. Did you have questions run through your head after you learnt of his death?
iv. Could you say that this was a feeling of guilt that you felt?
v. So you could say. Indeed, you have been stigmatized by your family leave alone other people?
vi. How would you describe your feelings towards your brother for having committed suicide?
vii. Did you have any unresolved issue with your brother? If yes, what is your feeling on the same?
viii. Having been aware of your brother’s condition, do you think it was a relief to him?
ix. Do you think the way your parents dealt with the loss is the same way you dealt with it?
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