The article, titled “ Stepparenting and Blended Family Advice” was published by Help Guide to offer advice to families in times of death of a parent. There is particular emphasis on people who come in later in the lives of the children as step parents. According to the article, “ Stepfamilies, also known as blended families, are more of a norm now than ever. At least one-third of all children in the U. S. will be part of a stepfamily before they reach age 18.” For this alarming statistics, the article outlines some useful advice for stepparents on how to integrate themselves well in the family; especially those who come in as a result of the death of previous parents of children.
The first submission made by the article is that most children do not find it easy coping with step parents when they come in at first. These children, especially teenagers and adolescents show some levels of resistance to adapting to the new family. The historical perspective of this situation is that in some years past, most stepparents distanced themselves from the children, having a notion that ‘ they came to marry the other parent and not to raise babies of death spouses’ .
For this reason, they admitted painful treatment to the children just because they did not see them as ‘ theirs’ . This developed a very wrong perception in the minds of children towards all step parents. Due to the preconceived ideologies of the children, they also welcomed step parents with indifference. In such situations, even if stepparents administered disciplinary actions that children’ s own parents would have administered to them if they were alive, the stepchildren took it to be hatred.
The article, however, leads a crusade to end this history for a better understanding of step parenting and blended family relationship in the event of the death of parents. The article notes that “ It takes time for people to establish positive, trusting relationships and to develop a family history. ”
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